Don’t mind the messy wall (that a sweet 3 year old decided to um decorate). The dishes are paper (sorry mother earth) and the cups don’t match (most are dirty or in the dishwasher). Seeing all 4 of our kids sitting together in harmony eating dinner is so sweet. I am working more on contentment and less on perfection and boy DOES IT FEEL GOOD! ahhh, I will sit back and eat my mac and cheese with veggies and enjoy this moment.